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My Runner Won't Eat: A Parent's Guide to the Under-Fueled Athlete

Parents help most when they reduce friction, speak calmly, and recognize when ordinary under-fueling is tipping into something more serious.

Reduce friction

Make eating easier before you make it more emotional

Visible snacks and ready meals solve more than repeated reminders.

Busy athletes often miss food because they are disorganized, not because they do not care.

A car snack and recovery drink can change the whole day.

How to talk

Lead with performance and care, not control

Use what you are noticing: low energy, slow recovery, frequent headaches.

Avoid body comments or accusations about weight.

The goal is partnership, not interrogation.

when to call
  • What it looks likeUnder-fueling often hides behind normal teen behaviorFatigue, irritability, flat workouts, and repeated illness are common clues.The athlete may say they are 'just not hungry' because they truly are disconnected from appetite.It rarely looks dramatic at first.
  • When it is biggerKnow when a picky phase is becoming a referralWeight loss, fear foods, skipped meals, or social withdrawal raise the stakes.Stress fractures or missing periods make the situation more urgent.You do not need proof of an eating disorder to ask for help.
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